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writes:Hello everyone , my question is very simple and basic i do not want to be preached , i just need a little helpI like this guy that i met and he has implied quite a few times that he is attracted to confident women, sth which i have always struggled with to the point that i literally get sick when i am around many peoplehow do i make him think i am that confident ? We also have been sexting but i have always adjusted my angle, how do i make him attracted to my confidence in bed even though i am not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2016): I just happened to see your question and had to reply. I learned a long time ago, don't try to be something or someone you are not for anyone, you're only shorting yourself of happiness and a real, true life. Been there, done that. Be yourself always, like yourself, love yourself. Sure, it's okay to work on ourselves in getting better at things, but changing ourselves for someone, no way. Recipe for disaster. Read this book - Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov, it is a for sure winner for women in the dating scene - I found it by accident a several years ago and it helped me gain confidence and strength and I know it will help you too. I have read it several times and passed it onto many a friend, who have thanked me for it. Anyway, be confident in who you are, be proud of the person you are. Don't go all pouring the sex stuff out there so fast, guys lose respect if they know women hand it out like candy at Halloween. Keep your self respect and he'll respect you. Read the book girl! Stay cool and take care. You're perfect the way you are. Take it from someone who was just like you once and then I learned! Glad I did. Life is good. :0)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2016): Does he simply mean sexually confident? If yes, then just assume that you have what he wants sexually. He wants to do 'stuff' to you right? Tease, ie. tempt, but not give it to him right away.
Pretend he says he likes your backside - wiggle your butt while you look him in the eye
Pretend he wants sex - make eye contact with a small smile with the thought of what he wants, then walk away
If you wear something a little bit revealing, have it on your mind that he wants to see more
It all begins with owning the fact that you have what he wants sexually and it's up to you whether you give it to him
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (10 September 2016):
Just be who you are ,you are a wonderful human person,and say to yourself..I am a ENOUGH FOR ME...if that is not enough for this guy,then that is his loss.Meet someone,who will appreciate you for YOU.The best gift to give to someone is to accept them for for who they are,and to love them as they are.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2016): to be frank you can do one of either two things.
1. B.S. aka fake it till you make it and just brag about how good you are in bed. This means that you cant have a filter. like you cant second guess what you are going to say. A thought comes to mind about sex you send it. This will come across as bravado, even if its false. You're in luck though because guys tend to be more gullible then girls when it comes to the opposite sex.
2. Or be honest, because more than likely the truth will show its ugly little head through, it will just be a matter of time. So you can save yourself the embarrassment by being up front and if he's not interested then that's his loss. Luck!
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