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anonymous
writes:my bf and i broke up a few months ago becouse he wasnt giving his all and i was..plus i found text messages to other chicks in his phone....he denyed having sex with them but couldnt deny the fact he was doin wrong...so i broke up with him but recently we have been having sex ...i asked him practically begged him to come back to me becouse i love him with everything in me and i feel like a different person when im with him...plus i didnt have proof of him actually cheating...but now it seems like he is taking my feelings and walkin all over me cuz he only comes here n calls me when he wants something from me...i wont talk to him for a week and then he will text me like i miss u...and jus when i think we r gonna get back together he comes here we have sex and we still aint together....what should i do?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 If you begged him to come back after he cheated on you then what message do you think that gave him, no wonder he is walking all over you, you just gave him an permission to continue abusing you. What did you expect??? Dump him.
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reader, pkveens  +, writes (29 July 2009):
honey you have let this guy walk all over you. He isn't worth it! If he wants to be with you then he would have made it certain but he just wants to use you for sex. If he is actually interested in a relationship with you he would have said so. Men like to know their property!
you have to stop calling him and texting him and if you see him DO NOT have sex with him or beg him. Doing all these things shows him that you need him and that he can behave however he wants. Let it cool for a while, don't reply to his "i miss you" texts. If he persists then he has to show you he wants more than sex, so get him to take you out on dates etc before it goes any further. If he gives up you will know he just wanted sex, and it may be hard to get over it but you have to stand up for yourself and then you'll find someone thats worth it.
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