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writes: I have a guy friend who I'm extremely close with. He has a girlfriend who has been giving him nothing but grief for ages. I care strongly about him and knows he feels the same way, but I have told him I'll support him no matter what and understand he's with her. But he has brought a number of situations that have made him MAJORLY question his relationship with her. I know he's better off with me, how to I make him realize that further?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Man-stealer. I dont have much respect for this type of lurking around. Be upfront and honest for once instead. Tell him you like him and would want a relationship with him. Its his decision to make if this woman he is with is good enough for him or not. Not yours. So leave her out of it.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 December 2009):
If you want him to see how your friendship is better than hers then tell him you want him but know you can't have him and need to get over him.
Then cut contact for a few weeks.
If he has feelings for you then he will miss you and realise you are the one he wants.
If he sticks with her then you know that he's an idiot and you'll never get him.
Is it really worth your pain to stay friends with him knowing you'll always want more?
Good Luck!! xx
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