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writes:Hi There,I have a really big dilemma.I have fallen bigtime for my best friends brother, who i've been close to for my whole life. I know my friend and her family would be okay with us going out (his mother especially!) and I know he has liked me at one stage,but I blew him off,as I'd just gotten out of a big relationship.My question is,how do I let him know how I feel without facing rejection? Apprently he has a potential girlfriend (I have no idea what that is) and i'd feel awful if I invaded on a potential relationship! Please help!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 You have a very good ally in your best friend. . Get more highly visual to him. Wear your best when you see him and he will definitely takes notice of you. Guys are attracted by visuals.
About his potential g/f, don't worry about her. His ship will change course if your waves you created will hit him...LOL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): hi
i had a similar situation a few years ago and i had to do something about it. it was my best mates sister. i had dated her when we first met but that was just kids stuff really. so i just went ahead and asked her. if your not really sure about asking him, just go about it in a around a bout way. ask questions which dont directly point to the answer your seeking and if you get a positive feedback then go for it.
if you think that it will break your friendship then dont go for it. friendship means a lot more.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 just talk to him, apologise for the fact you rejected him, explain it was because you had just gotten out of a relationship. If you two have been close just tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same =] you never know until you try
xX message me if you wanna talk Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi there.
I think the only thing u should do is be straight up and tell him how u feel.
when its bottled up in side of u thats not answering anything.all thats doing is keeping u wondering and ansking ur self does he like me.
Thats why if u tell him at least he knows and u never know he may feel the same.if not better luck next time.
Im sure your a really good person and and im sure he thinks the same.
Good luck
all the best
xo
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