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writes:OK, so I've met a really nice woman, and I want her...A LOT! I know she is definitely gay, but she does NOT know that I know, nor does she know that I feel this way for her. Next week, I'm going to get the chance to meet up with her again. I don't want to come accross too obvious, because I can't tell her I know she is gay (she told a friend who mentioned it to me...I know, not very trustworthy, but I will say nothing to anyone.) It wouldn't be fair to possibly make her feel uncomfortable either...So can anyone offer me tips/advice or anything really to help me let her know that I am interested, without being too forward or obvious. I really like her, and I would love for this to go somewhere...Please, any help?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Thank you all for your input.
I just want to highlight the fact that I do NOT know this woman very well (yet I hope!!), so I think it may be a bit too soon to just tell her out right how I feel...
Surely it would seem way too forward at this early stage??
Again, Thanks to you all
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reader, Sheryl +, writes (1 April 2010):
 just tell her, if you don't then it could be too late. Try your best and let her know how you feel xxx
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reader, Sheryl +, writes (1 April 2010):
the best thing to do is just tell her. If you like her then if you hold back you wont get anywhere but if you wait too long it will be too late. Hope this helpsmuch love Sheryl. xx
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (1 April 2010):
Bless you!Life for you knows no limits! Go out and tell her and tell her how you feel? Then listen to U-tube Hurt by the Nine Inch Nails!You will know what you have to do!Hugs
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Try a bit of flirting, very small amount, nothing too over the top. You could try the old school way and just ksk her out for a coffee or lunch? no committment attached, just 2 people having coffee/lunch? then is she says yes get to know her a bit there, ask her qustions about herself, make conversation and then go from there... try flirting ther if it goes well, you either will get along or you wont, take a chance, u never know unless u ask! the worst she can say is "no thanks" or "sorry im not single"Then at least you know, she may want to get to know u too and might not want to ask! go for it, dont spend you time waiting, take a chance, u only have one life.god luck
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