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writes:okay, well i'l just get straight into it. i'm a 17 year old guy and she is a 15 year old girl. we both go to the same college, she is 2 years below me in school and has a brother in my year. i honestly don't remember how we met but i have been texting her for about 3 months now. she is blonde and has some od\f the most beautiful eyes iv'e ever seen. me and my best girl-friend went out for the day and i decided to invite her along......now when she is texting me or Facebook or whatever she flirts like crazy......and she says she loves me and such.. usually i would be all in for this sort of relationship, but i just don't think she is mature enough when we went out she didn't start a conversation the whole time but she said she was just shy.......i have a little sister the same age and i just hate the 15 year old girl stereotype....... don't get my wrong shes beautiful and funny....i just don't feel a spark as such........now the big thing.....i am being forced to move to a entire different part of the country with my parents.in about 2 weeks! she knows this but still says i quote text "lol (: well 2 spend as much time 2geda as possible b4 u leave and 2 have some memories and wait til you come back if you do"i don't think i want to start a relationship that i know will end in a matter of weeks, how do i let her down without hurting her so much ? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah it sucks, she is so pretty :(
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reader, dmw  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 spending time with the girl will not do any damage but i think you need to meet her and explaine exactly what youv put here
it will make things alot better for her to get over it
tell her about her eyes and that u like her and everything good and than tell her that you cant start something with her because you dont want any of you getting hurt when you move explaine it really isnt her its the situation
she may react upset or angry to start with but she will realise its for the best
being told no is hard for any girl to hear from a lad she likes but in situations such as yours it is for the best
best of luck with it
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