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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey peeps,So I had sex with a girl and I'm curious if she orgasmed. A couple of things. Before I had sex with a girl and she told me she saw something and felt something, but was not sure if she orgasmed. She said it felt really great and she felt something different, but was not 100% sure. With this other girl she pretty much said the same thing. Both of them claimed that they can not orgasm, however both of them commented that they were not sure if they orgasmed. They felt something new. Something they have not felt before, so they can not say for certain if they did orgasm. Of course, some may say they were saying that to make me feel better, however they really are not like that. They are brutally honest and if I did a bad job then they will definitely tell me. The second one said she felt something different. During the sex her back was arching, she was breathing faster, she was cursing, and she was squeezing my hair. I kept going for like 2 minutes non stop, but after another minute or so I couldn't keep fingering her and eating her out. She was really, really wet, but I don't know if that was maybe from squirting from the orgasm? There was a puddle in my palm and enough liquid to feel like I just got lube and nearly emptied half of it. So I guess my question is... did they orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2021): What's this "rate my performance" I guess at your age the goal is to think you are top stud so this is more about it being a pride for your ego rather than it being really about the female
Sorry but you can't know for sure and if they aren't sure either how can anyone here say yes?
Maybe look up ways to be a good lover but every female is different, as are men so the best bet is to date young ladies properly and get to know them personally or just like anything if you have various lovers you will either get on in that sense or you won't...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 May 2021):
 Do you think YOUR performance is the only reason a woman has an orgasm and if they have one... means you are good at sex?
Also if you are "eating" someone out.. a lot of the liquid is your own drool. Just saying. Not even sure if women can squirt or if it's one of those RARE things, like orgasms (for some women.)
Instead of asking her if she has an orgasm, ask her if she enjoyed it. Because THAT is the point of sex. To ENJOY it with someone.
Ask her what SHE likes (you to do). And then pay attention to her reaction. If it seems favorable then keep doing that, if she backs away or squirms try something different.
Some women will fake it to get a guy to stop or because they think it will make the guy happy. How can you tell?
You can't unless you know her really well. And if she wants to do it again, it was probably good.
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