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writes:hey all,i recently have become very attracted to a gay woman. im bisexual myself. ive known of her for about 6 months, but over the past 3 weeks or so i have gotten to know her. i saw her on a friday night and things seemed good, she put her arm around me when showing me pictures from gay pride and she also put her arm round me inside the club ( my friend seems to think that the way she put her arm around me indicated that she was tellin other people thats she wants me so back off kinda thing lol).. her best friend didnt like that though, you see her best friend was one of her previous lovers of three years, and she seemed to drag her from me. i let it pass and the following day invited her out for a drink.. out of curiousity. I didnt expect her to come on her own. any way we got chatting and ishe told me she suffers really bad panic attacks when nervous and around people she didnt know and the fact it was a massive step her coming out to see me. My mate suffers from panic attacks to and she said that if she didnt like me at all she wouldnt of come out. but i see it as her wantin to make more friends. Well she text me after she left and told me she had a good night and she'd come out again.basically my question is how do i know she likes me? * we are both shy to walk up to someone and tell them. i am scared of rejection by the way. i know if i am rejected i wont be able to confront someone and i think she is like that too.And how do i find out if there her best friend is still into her? *her best friend seemed touchy feely towards her...Will i need her best friends approval? * becuase i wouldnt want to cause there friendship any trouble if her best friend doesnt like me.i know its long but please help...thanks xXx
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reader, sarasexypants  +, writes (9 September 2007):
im bisexual too and the only way I have found out if a girl has liked me back is simply by asking, ask the girl. And if you feel you should, ask her bestfriend how she would feel about you two being together. i dont see why else you should not be together
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