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writes: How do I know if a man (my husband) loves me to such an extent that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): Take each day as it comes and really enjoy each other. No one can look into the future, but thats part of the fun.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): lots of married couple stay long like 20 to 30 years but in the end they ended to devorce in any reason or any cases. its better not trust promise 100% before you hurt your self. trust me with that sweety.... gladyz
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): shouldnt you know? i mean....you married him
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): You'll never know, for sure.
A good starting point would be to ask him.
You then, through communication, find out about his past, his childhood, what things in his life made him the man he is. You then talk about yours and his future asperations and what in life would make him feel successful and happy.
If all this fits in to place with you, and he has given you no reason to think he is lying, and there is no reason to doubt him, then, I would say there is a pretty high chance that he does want to be with you for a life time.
It's a lot of hard work though, and you both need to be good communicators for such a relationship to work out.
Good luck, I hope it works out for the best with whatever you decide to do.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 December 2006):
Life is a gamble and you must live each day theorectically as if it is your last. How long is a piece of string? You cannot answer this nor can anybody else. Why worry about the future, live in the present...enjoy the NOW!!
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reader, Manya +, writes (10 December 2006):
If he married you, theoretically he will love and cherish you for the
rest of both of your lives, and even after that...
It is hard to go on so little information. I've never been married, but
my friends whose marriages work have their ups and downs,
but they try to make it work. Love takes work, sensitivity, and
also there's a bit of duty in a marriage. But I think it's worth it.
I also know couples who've gotten divorced and that can be dreadful.
In some cases, it could've been predicted early on, but other
marriages that seemed uncertain, have turned out excellent!
Just keep in mind the husband you first loved , always,
and he will reappear!
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reader, eddie +, writes (10 December 2006):
Well you don't actually. You can only hope for the best. How do you know you'll always want to be with him?
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