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*noymous
writes:How do u know its love?Im 15 hes 26, he tells me he loves me, but i find it so strange how hes fallen for me (a young person)..I dont know alot about sex etc!But he tells me he loves me, and wants me, but then sometimes i get the feeling of me just being STUPID and TOO YOUNG to understand!I dont know! :(Please help...xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Ok so i don't know if this will help but i am just putting it out there. How do you feel about him? Is it like you cant stop thinking bout him and u can't stand on ur feet when he is around u or do you get the feeling that u know he dosent really love u? that is probably happening because u dont feel the same way bout him,u want to but u just cant. Just listen to ur gut and heart if they say 2 different things ten just relax and the answer will came to u.And age isnt that important as long as you 2 care for each other (love) nothing should'nt get in the way of that. I am sorry if thysi did help like i said i am just putting it out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Look.
A man can fall in love with a girl your age. Its not right, nor logical. But it happens.
However, it is disgusting if he ever tries to make it physical.
I mean you are clearly not ready for a relationship like this. And you should shut him down.
He isn't perverted for having feelings. Feelings cannot be stopped. But if he acts on them, you must tell someone.
I'm 24 and I know full well how emotionally draining it can be to fall for a girl whose 15 or 16. Believe me, its not always perverted.
If he is willing to let you go until you are both legally and emotionally ready, then it is love. Otherwise its not. I mean you should be out experimenting with boys of your own age. And he should know that.
Its the very reason why I stood back and refused to act upon my own feelings for a girl your age. She was willing, but I knew better and that proved to me what you may not know yet.
Hope this helps.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): You are quite an clever girl, your mature enough to realise that a man his age is only intrested in one thing with girls your age. No decent man will try and seduce a 15yr old which is what it sounds like, keep away from him and pity him for being an big old perve who can't find an woman his own age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Well at least you have enough about you to question his intentions with a girl of your age.
I can assure you it is not love. I have been in your situation at your age and at the time I believed all the crap he fed me, it seems that you are more aware of this than I was.
I will be bold enough to say AT LEAST 90% of the time, an ADULT male has the wrong intetions with an adolescent school girl, despite what they say it IS about sex and they use lack of knowledge and level of infactuation to their advantage and ultimately get what they want.
Then if you are lucky they will hang around a few months before ditching you.
Please consider why this guy would go for a child, rather than a women of his own age - when you put it like that, he really seems dodgey, cant he get anyone his own age, so he has to prey on school kids?
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