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writes: my basic question is how do i know if i love him.i met my boyfriend in a 12-17aged nightclub. i am fourteen and so is he. we hav been going out now for about 4 weeks and i feel different towards him than any1 else i have been with. maby it is because he is the first guy who really does share the same feelings about me as i do him. (even tho i dont know what they are yet!) and i still think all the time " why is he with me??" there are must be must better girls that he knows than me. unfortunatley he told me that he loved me after a day of kkowing eachother so that wasnt special because i was pretty sure he didnt as we had only just met.he lives pretty far away so we don't get to see eachother that often but we talk all the time on the fone. but anyway that doesnt matter. how do i know if i am in love. i worry all the time that he wil go off me and cannot stop thinking of him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Its still very early days to know whether you love him or not. I didnt tell my boyfriend i loved him till after a year!!!!Id say give it a bit more time.
You'll know when you're in love. You'll think of him when you wake and just before you go to sleep. You smile everytime you think of times ye spent together, you count down the hours till you get to see him again and last but not least....the butterflies in your stomach when you see him is the biggest giveaway that you're in love!!!!
Hope this helps. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): honey do you know what they say about us teen girls? are emotions are all over the place and that we love 100 guys all at the same time' i totally understand what you mean but remember the word love now adays is used so loosely and you are very young try not to get to hung up like you the first relationship i was in first one i considered a major relationship and we loved eachother the relationship lasted just over a month this is not to say that your relationship won't last but be careful with yourself. the term 'love' has never actually been properly defined look it up on wikipedia.org or google but all definintions of it are very different its rare to find the same definition. for me i think love has no words and the defintion for it only exists in your emotion and what you feel between you two its that little piece of magic invisible to everyone else in the world but the brightest thing you experiance to you and your other half. how i know im in love with my boyfriend is because we have always felt connected, a special bond that niether of us shares with anyone else and we both know that if anything happend we would stop at nothing to find eachother because we could not exist without the other person but my definition of love itself is there is no definition you will that you love him because you just know it is not something easily measured if it can be measured at all please be careful with you heart sweety !! hope this helps xx
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reader, AJ jess ^..^ +, writes (8 January 2008):
 firstly, dont worry about the long term relationship as my succesful 3 year relationship is still going strong and started off long distance.
second, dont worry about not knowing what your feelings are hun knowing that you love him will take a long time but when you do feel it you will know
if you have any other questions just mail me xoxox
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