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writes:I have been in a relationship for about 5 years, I thought something was wrong with him but since he was going to Iraq for the 2nd time I thought he was stressing over that. Well he left for about 6 months and when he came back he was making a lot of excuses to be with me. So I let it be. One day I had to go to the local Walmart and suprise, suprise he was there with another woman, I was so hurt that I could not say anything at that point, I went into his email and found out a lot, he just had a baby by her, now it's been 6 months and we haven't talked or seen each other and one day I went to a local pub and came across him, we talked and now he was crying saying he wants me back, he misses me and I was the love of his life, one problem that girl baby mama lives in his house, she gets the royal treatment and me for 5 years did not. How can you tell if he is for real he doesn't want to be with her, he just wants to take care of his child. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Seriously, I wouldn't waste any more of my time or emotions with him. He chose his path in life with her - let him continue along it. You could do better and I think you know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): I think you uncovered a player, and I think he knows his tears keep the drama away from his little family.
I would pretty much write this one off to the old Red Flags-To-Learn-From list.
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