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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This boy and i have been friends for two or three months now. we met one night when we were drunk and we started making out but i did not sleep with him...he kept coming around so i eventually did. we hang out all the time (constantly) and he spends the night every night. we dont have sex often...but i am confused. he will say to me sometimes that he finds me that he finds me attractive, but we just dont have that connection. what does he mean. i feel like we are dating and everyone thinks we are but we arent!!!WHY!!!!!??????????
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Dear Anon.
I agree with my friend star9, it is time you both talked to each other to find out what is really going on, I would also not let him continue having a sexual relationship, last time some said to a friend of mine 'we dont have that connection' he walked out after a couple of mouth, telling her he had connected with some one else, so be very careful that this guy is not just using you for one thing, if he is then you should dump him asap.
I also think it is a bad idea to meet some one when you are drunk, if you are sober at least you can see what you are getting yourself in too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): i would confront him about this. you cant go on wondering, otherwise it will drive you mad. ask him what he thinks of the relationship. when you say you dont hav the connection, do you feel it? if you do then ask him if he does. i hope everything works out well! good luck :)
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