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writes:So I met this guy and after knowing him for 48 hours we made out in his car. I knew that night he was different and I really liked him. The next day he left for vacation with his family. While he was on vacation we texted everyday, like 200 times a day. We talked about everything from school and life to our past relationships. before him I had only had sex with one person. He had been with 6, normally that would turn me off and I wouldnt even think about talking to him, but he is different. The night he came back from vacation we hungout and ended up having sex. He told me he was tired but didnt want me to leave for a while because he truely liked me and he dint want me to think he wanted to hangout the night for sex.Since then we have had sex and he continue to text and hangout. He seems like he really likes me but we have only known each other for 2 week. Very soon for me to have this strong of feelings. Now it is my turn to go on vacation and I am worried that while I am gone he is going to hook up with some random chick.How do I tell him I really like him and I want it just to be us hooking up and not him with other people? How do I know he really likes me and isnt pretending to like me for sex?
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reader, Sexyteen +, writes (22 May 2008):
Sexyteen is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone. yah I dont love him. I just like him. I believe I have been inlove before. this guy has all the potential for me to love him, but I dont know him all that well. so I dont love him.Half of u say tell him the other half say not too. I need a guys help on this one I guess. I agree with both sides and thats were my prob is. I dont want to controll him and i dont want to scare him off, but I dont want him hooking up with someone else. I dont care what he does as long as its nothing physical with another girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): i agree with fionna on all except the 6-8 months thing. time doesnt matter to love. it doenst matter how old you are, how far apart in age you are, what race you are, or how long you've known each other.. love has no age, no face, no skin color, and love has no time. (not that i think you loev this guy) im just saying.. but as far as that goes, i think you should be honest with him about how you feel. the sooner you know how hw truly feels the sooner you can either be with him or get on with your life. good luck :)
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Two weeks is really early days.
It sounds great though, and sounds like you have fun.
I remember when we first knew eachother, I figured that there is the fun part of the relationship, the friensip part, and the sexual part. If all three feel right, then you stand a good chance!
But don't be too intense too soon, with life stories, and saying you love eachother. IMAO you don't really love eachother until 6-8 months time. You are fond of eachother now, and a tiny bit of love.
All could be good. See what happens after your vacation. I agree, no need to say anything that will scare either of you away, and spoil things.
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reader, PreciousNY +, writes (22 May 2008):
I don't think I would tell him anything just yet. You are right.....you may freak him out. If he really likes you, he will not hook up with anyone else. You've got to trust him until he gives you a reason not to. He seems to like you very much and I wouldn't chance making him run by telling him how you feel as you've only known each other for 2 weeks. That will scare most guys off so soon in a relationship. He may perceive that as you trying to control him.
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reader, Sexyteen +, writes (22 May 2008):
Sexyteen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am just worried since it is so new I will freak him out by telling him. But I guess its a chance I have to take.
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