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*uckyirishlass
writes:Hi, just wondering if any woman or guy could help me with this... Im in a relationship now with a guy for nearly a year now, who i love very much. He's great fun outgoing and treats me perfectly..except in the bedroom. I get turned on by being with him and he does do, but soon after he gets hard, it goes soft. we continue to make out but he cant remain hard enough for actual penatration! wat can i do!!!? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Try having him wear two condoms, it seriously cut out the sensation and for guys what aren't GREAT at staying hard it can be helpful. Sounds silly, but it does work.
Cock rings can do the same.
It can be something like performance anxieties. Very common. Google it.
Try a few things before suggesting Viagra and the likes.
Good luck
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reader, luckyirishlass +, writes (15 July 2010):
luckyirishlass is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a bunch, i cant help but be a bit anxious that its me.. but i agree it must be part mental aswell, we talked about it and he says he doesnt know why he's like that, that he finds me incredibly sexy.. maybe i could sorta sujest the doctor...ha that might be a tricky one to bring up.. i want to have sex with him! GAGH! its killing me!!!
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (14 July 2010):
There are so many reasons why they have a problem! in order to work through it he needs to be honest w/ you only he knows why? he can't get an erection! but you wont be able to fix or get past it until he opens up w/ you. it might be something he don't feel comfortable talking about? or maybe it's something where it could possibly involve you and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. you really need to have a serious discussion about it. exspecially if it's going to be a long term relationship! and you really care for one another!
Good Luck!
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