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writes:Ok, well i have a really strong dislike about tatoos. And my girlfriend agrees with me that they are disrespectful. Well she asked me if it's alright if she gets a tatoo, im am in no way a controlling person. I told her it's fine ill just ignore it. Well it's getting harder and harder to ignore it. I just want some tips on how to forget it's there.
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reader, Was +, writes (10 August 2010):
Was is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright thank ya'll ^^)
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 A tattoo is not going to change her character - if you love her you will accept it as part of her and not get all hung up about it.
Honeygirl
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 I don't think tattoos are disrespectful! You really CAN'T judge a book by its cover and tattoos have nothing to do with a person's inner character. I think they're sexy on guys; I don't want one for myself but I wouldn't judge someone for having one.
I do think that she should really give this some thought. Recently she didn't like them; now she's thinking of getting one. She needs to wait until she KNOWS she wants it because they're permanent. Also, it's CRITICAL to check out the place that does them because it's a health issue. Some places are sterile and some, sadly, are bad.
www.soyouwanna.com
"so you wanna get a tattoo"
This article has good advice about how to get it done SAFELY!
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reader, Blue Sahara  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 I think sometimes we can dislike things like tattoos not just cause we think the picture itself is bad but sometimes we tag certain things to certain people. Like in your mind tattoos might be tied to a certain kind of woman or certain kind of person.
If you realize your girlfriend isn't that kind of person, then maybe it will help you see tattoos aren't just gotten by disrespectful people. Good women get them too. Cause your girlfriend is a good woman and she got one. Then the tattoo just becomes a picture on a beautiful woman. Not a sign of defiance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): It's not your body. Let her make her own descions and be grateful a tattoo is the only problem you have in your relationship!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Just don't focus on it.
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