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How do I have sex with her without making it obvious that's what I want?

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Question - (1 January 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a lesbian. I made a new friend about 3months ago. At first she was interested in my other lesbian friend. At that time, I just broke up with my girlfriend. She was always there for me. We called each other some times and flirt.

Until 1 night when I slept at her house and we 'accidentally' have sex after she started hugging me. I left her the next morning before she woke up. After that day, our relationhip becomes awkward. We were trying to avoid each other.

Everytime I met her, she started talking about another girl and how much she likes them. And she sounds happy. At the same time, I tried to make her jealous by getting close with one of our friends. One day I texted her asking if there is somethin wrong wit us because we're not as close as before and she said she tought I didn't care because I acted like I didn't everytime she told me about the other girls. But when I asked her if she see me as more than friend, she said no, she likes me only as a friend.

After that we rarely contact each other anymore, we rarely talk and when she sees me, she just walked by like I didn't exist.

Once I gave her present in her locker but she put it back into my locker. But second time I gave it, she accepted it.

The truth is I want to have sex with her again. And I just want to know if she might still be interested and if she likes me more than friend. How do I know if she likes me more than friend and how do I make her have sex with me again without making it looks obvious that I want it?

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