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writes:Please help me understand "dating/talking"...Kind of a stupid question, but i've been talking with this girl lately, and we've become pretty close. Problem is that she doesn't want a relationship, but i do....I respect and understand her position completely, but it frustrates me and gets me angry when she flirts and talks with other guys because i basically like her so much. Like i said above i respect her position not to be committed to me, but if she's talking with me, does she "have the right" to be flirting/hooking up with other guys???I guesse my essential question is, what are the codes/rules of dating/talking????
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Ye then it seems like shes been useing you. You have a rite to feel upset then! I would be too. Not a very good friend, its not fair what shes doing to you. Ditch her. Find someone that only has eyes for you.
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reader, whatsTrueLove? +, writes (1 January 2009):
whatsTrueLove? is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe hooked up, (sleeping together) as what i thought was becoming more than friends...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): You say "hooking up with her" is that as friends or more? dates ect.
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reader, whatsTrueLove? +, writes (1 January 2009):
whatsTrueLove? is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlike i said, i understnad the "exclusive" part, but part of me feels that its just wrong of her to hook up with other guys when she's hooking up with me...am i too sensitive or??? and yes i am in the friend zone with her, and to be honest, i really have tried all those things with her, and nothing...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Technically your not exclusive so as much as you hate the fact she does it you cant really say that your upset and angry with her for doing it. Why does'nt she want to date you? Are you in the friend zone? There are a few ways toget out but it only works on a few girls.
1) A big gesture (get her attention)
2) Flattering her (about how beautiful she is or her personality. Try both)
And 3) Good old fashionable box of chocolates and a bunch of flowers.
All the best xx
Let us no how thing go :)
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