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writes:Me and this boy really like each other, we have for a while and I really want to be with him. The only thing stopping me is the fact that i've never really been in a serious relationship as I tend to get worried and never accept if someone asks me out. How do I have a proper relationship with someone? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): just trust yourself with him go and talk to him. just give him the way you feel and maybe he will feel the same way about you. it woint work itill you try ask if he wants to hang out sometime also tell him your scare about being by him like nervis just trust yourself as i said good luck
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Really, there is no such thing as a serious relationship untill you are old enough to live in your own place with your partner. Thats when it gets serious. However, like Tremor was saying, it is a mutual thing, a balanced love, respect and commitment between you and your partner. Right now, you are at the age where the relationship(s) you get involved in will prepare you for the "real thing". The lessons we learn from being in young love help to raise our standards, and understand what our needs are as far as finding the one that suits you. I learned that I needed someone easy going and honest because thats how I am, and a good, healthy relationship is based on balance and communication. Use the experiences you have now to learn more about yourself, and what it is exactly that you want. The guys you are into now might not be anything you want as you mature;)
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 There is no hard and fast set of rules in regards to 'how to have a proper relationship'. It's really something that varies from couple to couple.
However, in my experience, there are a few things that a successful relationship tends to need - things like love, mutual respect, trust, and friendship.
But honestly, if you really have to ask /how/ to have a relationship, you probably are not mature enough to have one just yet. Enjoy your teen dating years for the time being.
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