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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've started liking this girl who my friend had a short fling with for less then a month and basically they were to little alike and their just want much chemistry. Well she is now dating me 4 months later and my friend said it was cool and had no problems initially with it, and i even said i wouldn't do it if he wasn't comfortable with it but he made it clear he didn't have any issues with it. I asked many many times and he seemed ok with it. Well right now due to some financial issues in my family i had to let my parents basically take my car and use it to get to work while i car pool to my community collage. So the only way i can see my girlfriend is to have my above friends cousin drop her off and pick her up at my place and pay her for the gas because my girlfriends parents are at work most the time. This worked pretty well till now. She hasn't got her license yet, she has been putting it off. He suddenly decided he is in love with her even tho they barely talked and dated and messed around like 2 times and it was over. He has talked down to me acting like for whatever reason i am incapable of love on the same scale as him, and she and I are having probably the best relationship I have ever had. Well he went whining to his cousin about loving her still and what not and made her feel bad for him so she refuses to let me see her now because he did this! I can hardly ever drive to see her because of my parents work hours, and her parents just hate guys in general now after she had a user of a boyfriend a few years back and they just refuse to meet any of her boyfriends and want them no where near their house. It irritates me they have grouped me with every other guy when ive never used anyone in my life and im my own person. I just feel like my friends jealousy made him sabotage my relationship because i have what he wants now even tho he said it was ok. What should I do to deal with her parents and what should I do about my friend being a selfish jerk?
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