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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:First of all, I'm a 21 yr old college student. I came out to myself 3 years ago but only started to get more involved with the the gay community last year when i started living at school. Last weekend, me and a few friends went to a party. We met up with a few more people and one of them whispered into my friend's ear that he thought I was cute. Few minutes later, he said it to me personally. When the party was dying down, my friend proposed to have a few more drinks at my place and urged me to invite the guy who thought I was cute. We all played truth or dare, with me getting a lapdance and a makeout session from this guy. After a few more minutes we head into my room privately and i give the guy a blowjob. After getting something to eat together, I walked him home, no hug or kiss or anything when we arrived at his place. The next morning, he friend requests me on Facebook and I accept. At this point I'm still kinda in a happy mood since it was my first time doing that to a guy. (I dunno if I can call myself a virgin after that but I still think so since I had no oral action myself.) 5 days later, and no communication between us, he runs into me on my way to class. He asks me why I haven't talked or contacted him since that night. I casually brush that question aside by talking about something else. We chat about normal stuff and when it comes time for us to part ways, he instead chooses to continue walking with me. I arrive at class and we say bye with just a wave.My problem is, how can I tell if he wants a relationship with me? and if he does, what do I do? How does one go up to someone and asks to be in a relationship? I really want one with him (just to try it out) but I'm just worried something will go wrong and it will be my fault. I don't also want to lose this opprotunity nor do I want to make it seem that I am desperate. Being the first guy I ever experimented with, it gets even harder since I am the shy and timid type so its hard for me to express my wants and feelings. My instincts tell me that he does want a relationship judging by what he has been doing, but my confusion and anxious feelings I'm having right now casts a lot of self-doubt. Honestly, I have NEVER been in a relationship before so everything is really new to me. I'm confused, I'm worried, I'm scared, I'm overall lost. I don't know what to do or think. Any suggestions?
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (23 April 2010):
 be honest and upfront about things...tell him about your lack of experience and hope for the best!
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