How do I get to be with my Turkish man?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i meet a turkish man on net 7 munths ago,and i realy fall in love with him ,he said he loves me to,so we strared to speak about getting married and that he will come to my country to live with me,i was married before and i have a son of 7 years old and i am not with my husbent 3 years but still i didt take seperation,and in my country there is no divorce we have annulament so i was thinking to go for it and that i just got married with civil only i was thinking it would be easy but it is not ,before i knew this i want to turkey i stayed 1 munth and half with him and it was everything was so perfect with him i realy feel i found the man i was looking for all my life,but then when i came here things were so hurd for me ,he tryed to come before and he apply for holiday visa to vizit me but coz he dont work and money he dont have in bank they refuse it even i sand an invition form to consolate but everything for nothing,i even phoned them when i was in turkey but they just told me he cant come ,coz i live in a european country and he needs a shangang visa thats why its so hard to take,the only way he can come is to get married and i told her i cant ,then she told me if you love him so much come and live here ,but how can i go and live there if i have a son and his fathere has to see him ,so now i am back to my country alone i left my love there and i dont know what to do i am feeling like dieing here with out him ,if someone can help me ,who has past the same thing and can tell me how i must do to go out from this i realy be thankfull for all my life .

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