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writes:Hi everyone I really hope you can help me with this as I don't know what to do I met a man 9 month ago he asked me out I said yes I bought him a present for his birthday and he said it was too soon so I left that at that that was a while ago me and him don't see or speak that often we live very very close by like 30 seconds away I have told him how I feel about him but I get nothing back from him he has been hurt by his exes and so have I I have a 3 year old son from a previous relationship his dad told me to abort him and was cheating on me but me and this man don't see each other a lot he says he likes me and I'm fit and stuff like that but never how he really feels and when I do see him he tells me to text him more and asks if I'm seeing anyone else which I'm not I only like him how do I get him to see its only him I like and also how can I get him to trust me thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): There's nothing more frustrating than being in a relationship with a man who doesn't know what he wants. Is that right ladies? It is obvious from the post that you want him, but the signals from his end are faint receptions. Getting him a gift was the sweetest thing you did. It is not fair that you are the one making an effort instead of him. Tell him this: "You already know how I feel about you but I don't sense any mutual response. I want to be your woman and love you but if you don't want me then just say so. You have the right to love any woman you want. I've already decided that I want to give my love to no other man but you. I've opened the door of my heart and you stepped in. You let me stand outside the door of your heart and spoke to me from the inside through the windows. If that's the way you want it then I made a mistake letting someone into my heart who really doesn't want to take a personal interest in me. You don't have to pretend that I'm special to you. Be a man and be honest with me so that I'll find a man that I can give my love to and who will be willing to love me and my son back the same way."
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 If you have already told him how you feel, you need to back off on that subject. Maybe he just isn't feeling ready to move on from the past.
Just be nice and polite when you see him, if he is any kind of smart he will contact YOU.
PS I would not bombard him with texts.
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