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writes: i'm being bullied in school and i'm fed up of it i get in trouble from things i didn't do and its really getting to me i don't know how to stop the bullying i want to stop them i've told my mum and she's like had a complain with the school but its just made things worse i want this to stop how do you get bullying to stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): i had the same problem its not as bad now me and one of the people who did it are friends.. but my mum was going to go to the school if telling the persons mum about it didnt work and then she was going to move me school. moving school may be an option
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (8 December 2006):
 I think the bullies should have constant adult supervision during school so that you can be left in peace. Or go to the school again with your parent/s and threaten to take legal action against the school if nothing is being done. They can get in trouble for gross neglegence, being irresponsible and that sort of thing. I'm pretty sure there are laws about what measures schools should take if their pupils are being bullied. With all the anti bullying campaigns and those adverts on tv, you'd think the schools would wise up...but I guess not. And It's just sad that people like you have to go through all the bs.
Are you being bullied verbally, physically or both?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): I was once bullied alot too. I was also fed up, now I am really shy too and what helped me was laughing and making jokes to go along with what they said, I would talk to them friendly, say Hi when I pass them in the hallways. take the fun they are having at your expense and make it fun for yourself and make them think your enjoying yourself. Now if they are physicaly hurting you, that's a whole different story. Just remember life doesn't even begin until your out of school, so theres no reason to do anything drastic.
Good Luck and enjoy life
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): It's sad that you are a victim of bullying, but understand that this can continue on the rest of your life if the right (wrong) situations/conditions exist. You should begin training/preparing yourself ASAP for the challenges you will face. Do learn martial arts. Do strengthen your body using weight resistance (of various types). Do work to improve your looks (so that you are not perceived as being vulnerable). Develop your ability to communicate well (under difficult circumstances especially) both verbally (a calm, controlled assured voice is something you must develop) and through body language (body language that indicates that you are cool/comfortable/at ease/assured). Also, joining athletic teams can (not will) often help to reduce the amount of bullying you encounter (yes, there are instances of hazing for teammates...I know this happens). Finally, I want you to realize that even if you do successfully accomplish everything listed here, you might still experience bullying sometime or another in life; however, you should be better able to respond/handle/ deal with bullying (and that's what this is all about...as you will no longer be feel helpless in this sort of situation).
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reader, jtbgsexy +, writes (7 December 2006):
take some martial arts and learn how to defend yourself hopefully you will not have to use it but it will also give you confidence.
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reader, bby_gal06 +, writes (7 December 2006):
 hiya
i think that telling your mum and her telling the school would of been the best thing but if you react to bullies they do it all the more, so if you dont react the way they want you to they will get bored and go on to the next person but maybe if that dosent happen then you should consider moving schools you know new start and all that.
education is important it sets you up for the rest of your life.
if things mess up at school then you cant forfill your dreams.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006):
The accepted methods are to use unexpected violence on the bullies or to call their parents directly and tell them what is going on.
Another option is to get a tv news troubleshooter involved and have them start asking questions of the school faculity
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