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How do I get school to remove bad record?

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Question - (5 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female Japan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When i was in grade 7, I made out wit my bf and the principal caught us. [looool. xD]

NOW im worried if it'll b in my permanent record, im a straight A student and bcuz im asian my parents r strict, im not allowed bf's. (until im 20 =.=) im scared!

people in my school are in a scholarship program even though i get WAY higher marks than them,(my lowest average is math which is 94%) so maybe its bcuz of my record? how do i get them to remove it [i hope its possible]....

btw im in grade 8. lol...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

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And for a decent 1,

im sorry if im so "arrogant"

I didn't post this question to be insulted by you..

I talked to my teacher and they said that if i want, next year, i could be accelerated to grade 10. (or next sem, to see if i could handle it)

I was on the "gifted" kids (: HAHA.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

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LOL, sorry, but i swear, that's the first and last.

It wasnt really making out...but like, a long peck...

but apparently they said it was "making out"

Ever since then, im single, (:

AND SOO HAPPY (: teehee.

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

Sweety Pie agony aunta decent one... making out isnt sex its kissing... and I think it looks like shes learning if her lowest average is 94%!! Wish I could do that..

Dont worry hun, unless your school is very strict they shouldn't hold it against you, I mean even teachers were young once! Apparently... lol :)

I would have a quiet word with a teacher you can trust about this, just ask how you can improve more so you can be considered for this scolorship. They will love the fact you want to improve! Good luck!

xox

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (5 January 2009):

a_decent_1 agony auntSchool is not a place where you have sex.. !! You don't look bothered about it and a "lol" after every line means you haven't learned from it. !!

i have a School of my own and the only thing we want is for a Child to LEARN from his mistake.!! Maybe your school is waiting for you to Learn.. !! Your attitude does look arrogant.. !!

G'day

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

Go and talk to someone senior in the school.

Ask to speak to them in confidence and ask them what it says on your record. Ask them why you aren't on the scolarship programme and what you need to do to be considered.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

I wouldn't worry about it. In my experience permanent records don't actually exist. We all do goofy things in the 7th grade (and alas in high school and college and I'm assuming beyond that too). Even if it is in your record somewhere I can't fathom it transferring to high school with you let alone college and even if it did I can't imagine anyone would take it seriously (even teachers were 13 once upon a time) - especially as it sounds like a one time occurrence.

As for the scholarship thing, go talk to your guidance counselor or a teacher about it. It may simply be that you have to apply to get in or that an extracurricular activity you lack is required? And if the makeout session is by some chance the black mark on your record they'll let you know.

Best of luck and try not to worry too much!

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