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*ichTea
writes:Heyyyahhh ... Again I am wondering if anyone can help me. My ex who i spoke alot about a while back has come back into my mind. I cant stop thinking bout him and i love him. I dream bout him and wake up thnking of him. I know that things wont happen between us again .. although i hope they do ..But its not just that i love him its also that i compare everyone to him. Anyone i get close to i treat badly and sabotage the friendship. How do i get past this?Am i in need of Phsyciatric help?What do i do cuz its been 9 months we split... surely i should be past all this ... :S?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): Sounds like you got badly hurt and don't want to risk it again so you get in there first and spoil things with the next one.
Maybe a bit of short-term counselling would help. Or talking to someone about it at least. I wouldn't say you need pschiatric help, which is much more serious. What you are going through is common to a lot of people.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Dont talk to him, as usualy people who are not over their ex see talking to their ex as a way of getting back together, when it wont work - saddly for you.
Grab your best mates and focus your energy on having a good time out and spending time with the girls :)
Or get a saturday job to take your mind off him.
Or join a drama group or a group you are interested in, its a great way to meet new people :)
Just make sure you have a smile on your face at all times, to not show you are hurting or missing him. Or else you will not be approachable by new people.
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