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anonymous
writes: Ok well i went out with this guy and it was my longest relationship. At first i only liked him but the more i got to know him the more i liked him. Well then i started loving him and i mean i knew that i was never going to marry him but i thought the relationship was going to last way longer then it did. I thought we were at the best part of our relationship so far but then he dumped me and wouldnt txt me back and when i tried to talk to him at school but he would just ignore me. So my question is how do i get over him. Even when my friends told me well think of all the bad thinks he has done to you then just forget about him. Well even though i saw him hold another girls hand and get mad at me for no reason i still dont care so how do i get over him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Honey you are so young and really 'relationships' are too soon at this age even if you meet the right person - so it's perhaps best to concentratr hard on your studies and future potential. You only get this one precious chance to do it before life could throw all sorts of potentially trying situations your way including financial and career stresses.
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reader, flowerpower810  +, writes (9 June 2011):
To be honest the only thing that is going to get you over him is time. Number one thing that will help the best is to cut him completely out of your life. If you try talking to him your going to feel alot worse when he doesn't text you back then if you don't say anything at all- trust me! Try and keep yourself busy, try new things, and maybe even meet new people. Have fun, if you want to change something about yourself change it. Focus on yourself, and getting to where you need to be and what you need to be doing. Most importantly do not get into a relationship it only masks your feelings temporarly. Just roll with the punches some days it's going to hurt like hell but hey, your going to live and be stronger tomorrow!
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