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30-35,
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writes:I have this friend that's a guy he was my best friend for 3 year then we decided to go outbecause we were becoming more and more closer and more and more jealous of like when he goes on a date with a girl or when I go on a date wit a gu,you know. Well it jus didn't work between us so we tried the whole friends thing again right well he went to juvy and left me here without any one to talk to or call up for advice...or anything I only had my boyfriend now and I can't talk to him really at all. You gotta understand that me and my friend was unseparetable ok everytime I need advice all I had to pick up the phone and call him and even if it was advice I needed on a hott date for my boyfriend. I could talk to him about everything and everytime a had a problem he would be the first person I would call and even if he was busy he would drop everything jus to help me out...but he got in some big trouble and had to go to juvy for 8 and a half months. It hasn't even been 1 month yet and i'm crying over him all the time. I didn't even know he went to juvy until I called his best friend and asked him why he wasn't answering the phone to me. I didn't even get to see him one last time or talk to him before he went. Its only been 3 weeks and every nigth I have been crying myself to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore I have no one to talk to, no one to call up jus to brigthen up my day when it was like the worst day of my life. Omg I think I love him....... :( How do I get over this? I can I stop feeling this way and jus move on?......
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Here is the thing, you have allowed yourself to become dependent on this boy to make you feel good about yourself and your life, you have not spent much time cultivating new friendships so that you have a network of support...we all need that from time to time, you don't need a dozen friends, but you do need a few close ones....and being able to go to your parents at this age would help.
You don't really love this boy, you miss him because you are too dependent on him, dependency is not love, it is dependence.....
He does not sound like he is a great choice to have for a close friend, he is in big trouble with the law, that speaks volumes about his character....if he cared that much about how you would feel, I am sure he could have gotten a phone call out to you...Get your mind on other things, take a walk, get out of the house, join a club, anything, but cut this loser loose!!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Time. Writing. You say that you have no one to talk to, what about friends?
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