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writes:Hi. I need some advice. My girlfriend has recently dumped me and I am devastated. I know that I can't get her to change her mind and take me back (as much as I wish I could) so instead I am wanting to try and get over her which I know will be terribly hard for me to do because she was my first ever girlfriend and love. If anyone can give me some advice on how to get over her and get another girlfriend it would be appreciated!Thanks in advance for your help Reply to this Question
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reader, sonic89  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 hey man dont despair - i know exactly what you are going through - that pain in your chest will go away but it takes time but the best and quickest way (i am not saying its the right way but it worked for me) is to think like all girls are in it for some gains , there is no true love , and in order for you to carry on you just need to use others. Look i know it may sound like im a monster and all but its just that it creates a sense that you dont need someone with you to live - your independent - the right girl will come to you , you dont need to try so hard. It worked for me and soon enough she did come to me - and once she does you can let go of that so called "player" diguise and be yourself to her. All im saying is creat a shell on your outside so that your consious of heartbreak everywhere you go!
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 October 2007):
 I know how you feel, you feel like your whole world has just caved in around you and you just can't seem to find a way out. I can tell you from hindsight and experience that things will get better, although it may not feel like it now. Time really is the healer of all pain. Don't rush into another relationship straight away otherwise you will be on the re-bound. Give your wounds time to heal naturally, and when you feel ready and confident in yourself then persue another relationship. But don't be in a panic to meet someone, we often meet our perfect partners when we least expect it.
Good luck
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reader, Agony-Hannah +, writes (6 October 2007):
Okay,
1st of all, you DON'T go out with another girl to get REVENGE or to make your ex JELOUS. Or even to forget her. Leave some time to get over her. Otherwise your next relationship will NEVER work. Be patient, but don't block yourself out from girls. Just don't try and get into a relationship too quick. :) Thanks.
Hope I helped. x
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