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writes:Hello I am 21 year old medical student and have got a crush on a year senior. How do I get over this crush and concentrate on my studies. I plan to stay single for a while because of studies.please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your time and kind words.
I will take your advice and let things happen on their course :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2013): Hey :)
I'm a medical student too at my last year of studies, I'm not sure which year you are in but I have to tell you the furthur you go into medicine the harder it gets to make time for relationships, that said I personally wish I didn't miss out on certian chances/ possible partners to focus on medicine.
Granted it's harder to find someone who would put up with such a busy scedeul and deal with the tension and stress in your life, you might not even want to add another person to the mix. But if you wait till you have the time and the calms to start dating you'll miss out on a lot. Dating people from outside the medical field, is definetly interesting and refreshing it seems hard for them not to feel negelected and to cope with our life style and understand how busy we really are. I don't blame them.
I've dated a fellow medical student at my school ( a year my senior) it was great and we had a lot in common, he was very helpful and supportive I loved the advice he gave... He's been through everything I was going through! We both understood the amount of stress we were under... It ended for other reasons but it was the most functional 'relationship' I had. I would say give it a shot... If they are not in your class chances are they won't be in you face 24/7 as they would be doing different rotations so even if it doesn't work out it won't be a full blown drama, I'd say go for it.... Or if you really want to just get over this crush just avoid bumping into them for awhile,get busy and time will take care of it for you
good luck
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