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How do I get over him and move on to finding someone new without comparing them?

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Question - (23 February 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex broke up with me silently a few months ago.. We had a great relationship.. I'll never really know why he left me.. Maybe we were just not meant to be.. I've accepted the fact that he's gone but I still can't get over him.. I know he's a complete jerk for leaving me hanging on the strings.. But even when I hate him, I still love him so much and I really miss him.. I heard that he couldn't bear to break up with me so he just left like that.. Typical coward.. We've been friends for such a long time and I'm sad that our friendship is gone because of this relationship.. He was such a great friend.. I heard that he has a new girlfriend now and he seems happy.. I'm happy for him but I'm still hurt.. It's affecting my future relationships.. Everytime I meet someone new, I'll keep thinking of him and I'll end up dumping that guy.. I just miss him so much as no guy I meet can ever replace him.. I just wish that we could remain friends like before.. But he's totally gone from my life and I'll never ever see him again.. How do I get over him??

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