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writes:dear aunt,before i go on to say my problem i must commrnd the good work u are doing on this site.do keep it up.my question is tha i usally develop a cold feet approaching a lady cos i feel i might be rejected.summarilly i dont know how to approach a lady Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 Do some studying. Don't use lame approaches. I find it easier if you approach with an interest. Not saying I pick up on everyone I talk too. I just enjoy meeting new people. Such as, you're at an ice skating rank. You see a pretty girl standing there watching, just walk up to her, and say something about the ice skating. The feelings you get about being rejected is normal. It happens to most of us. I owned a business where on the streets I'd talk to people I never met. Some times I felt as if my stomach was going to come right out my mouth when I talked. What I found was by doing it, you'll begin getting over your cold feet. Do it over and over and over again. Once you begin to see what works and what doesn't for you, you're confidence will go up because your preparation will be there. The hardest one is your first one. Get past that, keep what works and ditch what doesn't.
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reader, love hurts!! +, writes (19 September 2007):
 heyy!
you really shouldnt be scared!
if shes given you the eye signel then you NEED
to aproch her!
you cant go throgh out life being scared or you wont get anywhere!!
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