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writes:Hey guys slight prob and need some help... my boyfriend has booked a 4day trip away from home for me and him to go on togther... the issue is that my parents dont know about him and i cant tell them about him... so i need an excuse to get out of home for these 4 days... please anyyyyy excuse that they will believe Reply to this Question
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (30 July 2009):
I hate to be the one to tell you this but you are 18 legally grown you don't have to tell anyone anything but if you really need too you can say you and some girlfriends are going on a trip to have some fun and let them know when you are leaving and when you will be coming back and call them while you are away so they wont worry. Better yet you can tell them you personally are going away and let them no way ahead of time if they start asking questions give them a vague answer. Legally though you don't have to tell anyone anything unless you choose to. Your only choice really is to use the friends thing because if they don't know about him then anything other than this answer will be hard to explain. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): Say you're staying at a friends place for Freshers week at uni? Or you and your friends are going on a camping trip for a few days.
But I think you should tell them at some point, whats the worst that could happen?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Any relationship that starts in deceit and is bedded in lies is doomed to failure. As a parent I object to your goal and am confused by the need. I also wonder how you are going to explain the next stages of your secret relationship. How can a relationship be so beautiful, and you can't talk to mom about it. OK OK getting off the soap box.
If you tell your parents you have a job out of town, they will be so excited they will help you pack. It may be hard to explain the lack of cash when you return. For Pete's sake don't tell them you are watching your friends pets while she goes to camp. That's been done in all the sitcoms and it never works because the friend always gets caught.
Good luck with that anyway.
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