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*oungandrestless
writes:so lately my libido has been increasing, where i want to have sex at least once if not twice to three times daily, but my fiance has been stressed about work and his libido is going down. he gets annoyed when i paw at him for sex but becomes angry when i masturbate because he says it makes him feel like he's not enough for me. how do i make him understand that its nothing wrong with him, its just how my body is acting. also sometimes i become upset when he rejects having sex with me and i begin to resent him for it. the feeling passes but how do i prevent this from happening?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (20 March 2010):
 You don't have to let him know you are masturbating. May I ask you if you are satisfied every time you have sex? It's not that your libido is increasing, maybe you didn't orgasm deeply enough? How long does one session last? After good sex you should have a good feeling of saturation so you would not hanker after more. A good session of sex every weekend is better than quickies every day. I know you are living together it's easy to relieve every day stress when you are so close. If you have faith and patience and let your energy build up, the sex would be more rewarding each time. It's not about him or you. It's about the quality not quantity.
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