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26-29,
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writes:I am having a hard time wondering if my ex is still into me. I mean I see him and he flirts a little and he calls once in a blue moon but I don't know. He gives me little signals that want me to think he likes me but I don't know if he does. I really like him and I want to be with him but I am not sure how he feels. Could someone give me some advice about how I get him to notice me and see if he likes me?
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reader, polarkite +, writes (8 February 2008):
 it may sound strange, but next time he's flirting with you, you could take the lead and ask him if he wants to go out and do something like when you were together.
if he says no, or asks you why? or something, that leads me to believe he's just playing mental games with you to give himself an ego boost. i mean why would he just flirt with you and lead you on, for things to just go nowhere.
then again you kids are only 10-12 years old, so try to "lighten up" a bit and go jump on a trampoline or do something fun!
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reader, DrMel +, writes (8 February 2008):
Play it cool...every man regardless of age..they all want what they have to work for to get..
Give him a little bit of attention..make sure you are always having a great time in his presence..DONT STARE AT THE BOY...when he is around just be friendly with his friends..incorporate a group..smile..laugh..be the beautiful young lady you are...
Trust me ..he'll come around..eventually..
These things are never instant gratification..But if you do the whole "hard to get" thing...He will definitely come around.
Good Luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 You need to be highly visual in his world and he would take notice of you .You need to be attractive too.Talk to him .The way he responses would tell you his feelings towards you.
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reader, bleh222 +, writes (8 February 2008):
 yooo grow some balls.. well you know what i mean. you're at least like 12 so hmmm. he probably still has feelings for you but doesn't want to be with you if you're not together? i don't know, get a friend to talk to him maybe? thats the best i can doooo. good luckkk!
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