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writes: Does anyone out there have any tips on how to get a boyfriend back? Things to say etc . . .I am gay and 33 and have just split from my boyfriend who is 21 after six months.Things were going swimmingly well until recently when he has had loads of pressures at work and it really did take over our relationship.I am shocked as he called me constantly over Christmas and New Year, telling me that he loved me, and then suddenly ended it saying he does not love me as he should, also saying that he does not want anyone in his life at the moment due to the problems in his life.I believe his pressures at work, including the sudden death of his grand-dad, have all clouded his world. I am meeting him next week after a few weeks apart and I have resisted from calling him so far.Any tips on how to get things back on track?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 February 2006):
 Ease up on the pressure then. I am not syaing that you ARE pressuring him, just that is how your poor BF sees things at the moment. I think everything that is getting on top of him is out of his control and your relationship is the one thing he CAN control. So psychologically he may be exerting his power over the one thing that he can.
I may be completely wrong, but I think if you lay low and leave him alone for a while he may come back after he has had some space to lick his wounds and some time to think.
I hope it all goes well for you.x
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reader, intoxctd02 +, writes (15 February 2006):
I have the same exact problem, except the part where me and my now ex are 21 years old. He also had his grandad die, pressure from 2 jobs and university. I really wish how to make it easier on him and at the same time not to pressure him in the lets get back together department. If you get any ideas let me know ;)
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