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writes:i hang out with 2 very good friends, the girl i liked knows that i like her and she doesnt like me.i am getting over her now hopefully. Now this girl has really started to hang out with us and although she isnt into me, i just wanna be really good friends with her. The problem is that she is really really good friends with the other 2 friends of mine, which is fine but she isnt as close to me.....she isnt as free with me as she is with them and talks to them way more despite me being around. I think this is because she knew that i liked her and the awkwardness is still there....this is annoying, my friends are like bros to her and i wanna be closer to her...for example, they get hugs from her but i dont......now i cant possibly stop hanging around them because they are really good friends of mine including her.i usually get quite when she talks to us and hardly looks at me....i mean, she says that we are good friends but nobody can tell that.....i frustrating.Sometimes i just blank out and i dont know how to start a convo with her, its just not me......i just wanna clear off the awkwardness and try and be like her best friend.....how do i do this? plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): I think you might be into her not ina lovey dovey way but in a way that you kinda want her to yourself maybe try to ask her to the park just by herself or if she is taking jump into the conversation hope that helpes!
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (17 May 2011):
 Hello,
Yes it is awkward and I can understand your situation. Did you ask her on a date? Or, are you just thinking she doesn't like you? If you haven't said any of the above, just talk to her and clear the air. Ask her if there is any reason she isn't as friendly with you as the others. See what she says.
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