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writes:Hello, I am in desperate need of advice, I'm having a lot of relationship problems. My boyfriend had a bad break up with his ex and I think he didn't get closure. He's very to himself and doesnt like to share personal things with me, even though he opens up sometimes it's not enough. I like a lot of attention but I try to understand him because I know it must be hard for him but at the same time I need him to understand that we have been dating for five months now and it's time for him to trust me and open up.. same way I did.. so what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Wow, be patient, if you are going to put pressure on this guy you might end up an ex too.Give him time and space to work out his own emotions and if you cannot give him that time and space, MOVE ON; find somebody that will give you all the attention you WANT.It is no good forcing a situation; he will either open up and share with you when he is ready or if you 'nag' him you might loose him.Some of us needs more time to heal and to learn to TRUST; if you care for him, have a little more patience.GOOD LUCK
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