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writes:i always call my boyfriend and he knew that i dont want to say bye,i feel that he doesnt need me,but i know that he loves me,plz tell me what can i do to make him want to call me always and need me so much??[added from same user]why dont i feel my boyfriend need me and want to be with me always?? Reply to this Question
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reader, sdwwcc11  +, writes (20 October 2008):
Give him space. Men hate being smothered...don't call him all the time, go out and do things with your friends or family, and try not to think about him. If he really cares about you, he will call to make plans.Good luck!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 August 2008):
Don't call him. As much as you want to, let him call you first. Once he notices that you're not calling him 24/7 he's going to start to wonder what's up and call you. Just let him make the phone calls and asking out for a while.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Hi, you seem very very nervous and upset by this. I have to tell you that you need to learn some patience and relax. You cannot make someone love you, but you can give them a chance to miss you a little bit. If you are pushing too hard for him to love you, you may actually be pushing him away. I know that sounds backwards, but it's true.
You sound very clingy, actually, and most guys don't like girls who suffocate them.
It may just be that you're young still and have to learn things about boys. Just be patient, give it time, give him some room to breathe and a chance to miss you from time to time! Let him call you for a while, even if he doesn't call as often as you want.
Hope this helps!
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reader, porkchop.xo  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 You can't make someone want you... Do you give him space? time to think about you on his own? Just because you think of him doesn't mean you need to call him and tell him every single time... All I can suggest is back off a little bit don't call him so much and make other plans, sure it will be painful for you but if you go through with it he will notice that you didn't call him today, or text him or whatever and soon enough he will be wanting you because you aren't around as much. This will probably be good for you also, because it seems like you are smothering him and you need to find some activities to keep him off your mind. Good luck :)
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reader, zizetta +, writes (1 August 2008):
zizetta is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat can i do to make him want to call me always and need me so much??
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reader, zizetta +, writes (1 August 2008):
zizetta is verified as being by the original poster of the question i always call my boyfriend and he knew that i dont want to say bye,i feel that he doesnt need me,but i know that he loves me,plz tell me what can i do to make him want to call me always and need me so much??
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