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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:He is the father of my 2 children, we broke up but how do i get him to accept we need to both move on? My relationship with my ex ended some months ago,there were lots of reasons. We started getting along a little better and one evening he stayed for a drink and we ended up in bed together. We both aggreed that we would like to take things slow, however for me i was just feeling lonely and he caught me when i was feeling low. He loves our children but i know he regrets having them. Our reltioship has always been on his terms, he doesnt live with us and he just seems to want to come and go when the situation suits him. Meanwhile im left alone with the children. I could tell him a thousand times how i feel yet nothing will change. Ihave accepted its the kids he is interested in and im just there. I want us to move on and him to let me go but he is always there in the back ground taking control. Why wont he let me go when even he reakonises we dont get on anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): You need to distance yourself from him emotionally and physically (in as much as you can so he can access the children). It's the only way to move on for both of you. Then there is no chance of intimate moments that set you back. Set some bounderies, tell him its neccessary for both of you. In time it will work.
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