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writes:I am a 46 year old male. A friend and i he is 27 were together for a year and a half. We came back home to our hometowns for a while and he freaked out that people thought he was gay. He is now dateing a women who is the same age as me, he use to refer to her as his aunt, its actually his step brothers aunt, he calls to tell me that she is the carbon copy of me. I took off for 3 months to another area across the country. He wanted me to come back and move to were he is. He is drinking alot and does not sound like he is truely happy in his voice though he makes it sound like all is well. I am confused what to do about this situation. I love him very much and believe he loves me. We have never had a honest conversation about how we feel about each other. What do i do, how do i get him back and help him to come out and let him know people will accept him being gay? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxSABBYxx  +, writes (12 November 2008):
Awk chum dosnt sound great,i agree with the other agony aunt, counseling would be best..he needs to understand and come to terms with what he really wants... Also if he is now drinking more this means hes using this as another means of blocking his feelings!!try and have a chat with him and make him see what he is potentially doing to him, and to you in the long run, be supportive but do not pressure him. he has to do this when he is ready, and needs the support from all involved!!hopethis helps!Sabsxxxxxxxxx
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