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writes:HI am in one hell of a situation .I was with my girlfriend lacy four almost four years. Then we started having these rough patches. Wed argue non stop over petty things . It really hut our relationship . Well we had got in a big fight one night so I left .she said somEthings that hurt me and I said something that hurt her .really awful things. I went out to a party to blow off steam . I ended up drinking I was talkin to this girl she seemed really cool I started talkin to hr more while we were at the party we ended up kissing and makin out then I started feelin her up and she was rubbing on me. I stopped myself from going any further. I then got up and left and when home o my wife. I apologized to her about the things I had said. And we laid together talkin until she fell asleep. A few days later I come home from work and lean in to kiss her but she moves herself away from me I asked what's wrong then she tells me that she was told that I had sex with. Girl the nigh tt I went out I asked her who told her that lie and she says Charlotte (the girl At he party) Charlotte has always had a thing for me but I love my gf so I never did any thing with her . I try to convince my wife that I didn't have sex with her becauuse I didn't . She didn't care . She packed her stuff and I begged her to stay because I didn't have sex with anyone. Now she's Livin with her sister. I made the mistake of kissing the other girl and it was wrong and I hate my self for it. My. Question is yow do I get her to come back home b??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Hmm.. i dont really really know, but i think you should make her miss you--dont talk to her for a little while, but not long enough for her to meet another guy (that would be very bad)..... and then you could talk to one of her friends and make sure that you seemed worried about her.... and you could leave her some flowers or chocolates at her door with a note saying something like 'im sorry love your name xx' but dont keep bugging her.... also, remember what made her love you, and see her again then do what you would do when you were together......... and dont ever let her see you with that girl at the party!! Dont keep calling her and dont keep bugging her!!
I hope that this helped and good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Well just for a start... Are your gf and wife the same person because the question is ridiculously unclear.
And if she doesn't forgive cheating, which you did! Then you have probably blown it.
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