A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi about a year ago through a common friend I met this guy,the three of us went for lunch..we had a good time,I enjoyed talking to this guy let's call him A and my friend Z So I really thought A would take my number from Z to get in touch with me but he didn't,so I didn't meet him after and he left the city and I never saw him again..About a week ago and Z's farewell party I met A again when I saw him I just said hi,and then at the party I didn't talk to him neither did he,at one point he sat next to Z,and I initiated and asked how he was and then he started talking to me..So after that we didn't talk again,and then we were in a club A and I were goin to a club but A asks my friend who he doesn't even talk to If we would want to join them to another club and that friend asked me and he constantly looked at me for my answer,I said yes but we went separately to other club in different cars and there we were dancing I was busy with my girlfriends he was busy with the boys.When it was time to leave I said bye but I decided not to say bye to him and then he came to me and said bye and good luck and I said good luck to you too..and left he left the city today as well..I thought the way he looked at me he liked me,I guess I was wrong!!I don't mean to sound conceited but I'm really attractive and a lot of men find me intimidating to approach I lose out on a lot because of this..!next time if I meet someone I like to know how do I get him to talk to me and him not be intimidated? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2012): I agree anonymous with your post may because I know I'm attractive when a man doesn't hit on me I think oh may be he finds me intimidating..the reason I thought that he does is,a lot of men have come up to me and said its hard to approach me,they think I'm already taken,even at clubs people don't approach me directly they ask my friends about me..may he wasn't interested but he never gave me a chance to show my personality cuz we hardly spoke..anywys I'l let it go.
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