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writes:I want to convince myself that I don't love my ex boyfriend anymore. The truth is that I still want him in my life, but he's already got a new girl. I spoke with him a few days ago and asked him if he really did like her and his exact words were "yeah, she's a good person." WHAT IS THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN?! And when I asked if he missed me, he said yes. I'm confused. I get so mad everytime I think about him being with another girl and kissing her.. I always have an urge to text him, but I know that if I text him, he probably won't text back because he's constantly with his new girl. How do I forget about this guy, and how do I know if he still loves me or not?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 The fact that he is with someone else shows that he doesnt care about you as much as you do about him. I'm not sure how long ago you split up but it is only natural to miss him and feel angry at the thought of him with someone else.
Clearly he has moved on so I think it is best for you to move on too, you deserve more than to wait around for someone who has jumped from one girl to another.
There is no one way to forget about someone, time is the only thing that will help. Try not to contact him, hearing about his new life will only make you feel worse. Spend as much time as you can with friends and family, throw yourself into some hobbies/activities and generally try and take your mind off him as much as possible. It will get easier with time, I promise!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Whether he wants you back or not, he is already with someone. Its never right to get in the middle of a relationship... i hope you realize that. However you feel about this guy, i hope you choose your actions carefully because you may hurt innocent people.. it isnt fair.
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