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writes:me and my boyfriend broke up one month and a half ago, we have stayed really close friends and i thought i was cool with it being like this, but recently ive realised how much i miss him and want him back. but my mum seriously dislikes him as she believes that i was providing him money (which i wasn't) and she thought i was becoming more distant from her because of him.eventually my mum confronted me and we had a massive argument in which she made it clear it was either him or her (i come from a very close family)i chose my mum and had to tell my boyfriend, he was really understanding and said he wanted us to be friends as that would be easier for him rather than never seeing me again (my mum has no idea we still see eachother). i really love this man, i would do anythign for him regardless if we are together or not. he is also my closest male friend now, ican tell him anything... except that i miss him and want him. when we were together it was not perfect (he would b late meetin me or would have to cancel nights out due to the fact he has a son)but i was happy with him, he was the first to say i love you and he told me he never says that lightly as he is quite a guarded person.i unsure about whether or not it would be a good idea, he has said in the past that he doesnt go out with ex's and also if we did get back it would have to be kept from my family. his behviour confuses me slightly as at a friends recent b/day party he turned up and asked a friend of mine to not tell me he was there yet as he wanted to see what i was up to, but then when i asked him abiout it he denied it sayin that he had only said he wanted to give me some space to do my own thing. also the last two times we have met up we have ended up back t his house and end up sleepin together, but i know that regardless of this fact i would be feelin this way.i really need advice on whether i should tell him and if so what could i say, as i cant seem to find the right words.
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reader, MeganT +, writes (16 July 2006):
As much as your mum doesn't want you to see this man if you love him you should go for it. Your mum will come around ! Tell him that you want to get back together and hope he will understand. But forget your mum if she is gonna be like this.... Its just not worth giving up the man of your dreams.
Good Luck
MeganT x x
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