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writes:hi a while back i met this guy and we instantly clicked, the sex with him is amazing i can go so far as to say that its possibly the best sex of my life!!!the thing is he lives in another country which is not a huge deal its like 45min flight and he's been to see me and i've been to see him and every time we had a blast!!the thing is he's 37 and i'm 25 i really really like him i think about him all the time and when i'm with him i feel so happy i could cry and when i'm away from him i miss him so much that it hurts :( but we've actually never talked about 'us' like what's going on between us or where its headed!!i don't want to bring it up because i don't want to sound needy or be one of those people that i hate that need to analyse every aspect of the relationship!!(i know i'm a secret hypocrite)but i'd really like to know as i can see myself spending my life with him i'd even move to be closer to him but how do i do it in the gentelest most sane way possible without looking pushy or how do i find out if he even feels the same as i do???maybe he just enjoys the sex without having the hassle of a relationship :(thanks for reading Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): I am glad you know he's not married.
It could be the age gap. Like I say you need to talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for getting back!!well i definitely know he's not married vintage64 because i've stayed with him in his house which he shares with two other guys who are absolutely lovely!is it maybe because of the 12 yr age gap that he'd never consider a relationship with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for getting back well i know he's definately not married because i've been to see him and i've stayed in his house which he shares with 2 other guys who are the nicest people ever!he is an absolute gent don't get me wrong and he treats me with respect i was just wondering would it be becaue of the age difference that he wouldn't even consider anything serious with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for getting back well i know he's definately not married because i've been to see him and i've stayed in his house which he shares with 2 other guys who are the nicest people ever!he is an absolute gent don't get me wrong and he treats me with respect i was just wondering would it be becaue of the age difference that he wouldn't even consider anything serious with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): I am sure he enjoys the sex, just the same as you. it could be that is all he wants but your not going to find out unless you talk to him about it.
I hate to put this thought into your head, are you sure he's not married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): i'll be honest, i don't think he wants a relationship with you.
but who knows? write him a letter. but if he doesnt respond or you dont get the answer you want, be strong and walk away.
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