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writes: A few weeks ago I had started work. Sinse my first day I had layed my eyes on a man there. My problem is that I was recently told by work collegues he likes me too but they could have been joking because they are like that. No one knows that I like him and I don't want anyone to know. Is there a way I can find out if he likes me or not without the humiliation of asking him face to face or other people asking him myself? If I ask the people who told me they will tell everyone as they like to spread news about. Please help me. It has been bothering me for 3 weeks now and I just don't know what to do. If there is anything between us I would like to know straight away as I finish my job at Christmas so I wont see him again unless I find out the truth. Please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): If he has not asked you out by Christmas, I think this is a good way to tell if he really likes you....also dating someone at work can be a bit dicey especially if he cares about his job, what would happen if the realtionship does not work out? Everyone at work will have to go throught the uncomfortableness of your break up...better to just be friends for now, the best romances start from long freindships anyway...so chill out.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 Hey,
You could text him, or email him.
Or you could ask to meet up after work for a drink and see how that goes. If it's going OK, ask him there.
Or find someone at work you can trust who could ask him, but it's always going to sound better coming from you, rather than someone else.
And if he says he doesn't like you, you've always got the fall back of 'Phew, no I thought so, but did you know X and Y told me that you did, what a bunch of jokers, ha ha!' and then it's not such a big deal - right?
Good luck,
Anon2907
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reader, red.roses.88 +, writes (4 November 2006):
The best way is to flirt - smile at him, compliment him, make flirty comments etc
If he responds in the same way then you know that hes interested too
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