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writes:ok theres this guy i like we havent known each other long but i really like him the thing is week coach together but thats the only time i see him which is like once a week and i want to hang out more but im not sure if he likes me in the same way. i scared that if i ask him to hang out he will guess that i like him but not feel the same way. how do i go about finding out if he likes me more than a friend and where should we hang out n stuff bcus i get quite nervous. please helpthanx Reply to this Question
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reader, ajob +, writes (4 May 2009):
ajob is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for ur advice the thing is 'Marillion' we dont really share the same friends so i think it may be more awkward?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): I agree with the person below me,if he like's you he will want too hang around with you aswell.Just remember, you can't make a person like you.
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reader, Marillion +, writes (5 January 2009):
I think the best thing to do here is to invite him out with a group, that way you will have the backup of your friends if you do get nervous, then as you get to know him more you will then be able to find out if he has feelings for you. It is always better to form a foundation as friends to see weather you would be compatable as a couple.
Hope it works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): You need to check out why you like him, first.
Try to find out more about him. Hang around him more if you feel like so that you may know what kind of a person he is. And take it slow. Sometimes it's good not to ruin a friendship by taking it a step further than what it already is.
Who knows if he might have someone else in his life. You really need to know him better.
But it's kinda clear that if he liked you as for more than a friend, then he'd definitely try gettng in touch with you. So just relax and don't let it control you.
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