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writes:The majority of my friends are male, and of my female friends only one is in my new town with me. I love going to the bars, especially since I'm single and I want to meet new guys. But here's my problem, the one girl doesn't like bars, and when I go with even a small group of my male friends, nobody approaches me.I'm not clueless, and I can only imagine that the reason no man dare approach me is either A) He assumes one of the men in the group i'm in is my boyfriend or B) I've already got a crowd of guys trying to hit on me, how can he even get my attention.But i'm a girl, and I'm sure as hell not going to the bar by myself. So here's the crazy question, how and where the heck am I going to find female friends who will go to the bars with me!?Typical answer: Co-workers...yes yes...but despite attempts they've very "clique" ish and its more work trying to get them to even say hello back then it is to just approach a guy myself when I go out with my male friends.HELP!
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Have you not thought of maybe joining a gym or a local exercise group where you may be able to meet some new girly friends that can come out with you, i know it's hard because when i was single all of my friends were married so they never wanted to go out.
I joined a college and done an evening course one night a week and met loads of new friends there and we go out .
It's just a suggestion.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 July 2007):
 If you see a guy you like why not try approaching them. I used to go out with the most over protective group of guys going and they probably saved me from a lot of wasters. I had to approach a guy I li8ked otherwise they wouldn't come near infear of my mates.
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