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writes:I am an older Bi mwm. 77yo . Have only tried mm relationships for the past few years. How do I find another male for fun and exploring. Without signing up for a service and keeping this discrete. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2021): I have had some great hookups in the past. That was with craigslist. No problems and some very fun older men. But I understand what your saying and I should probably just try to forget it at my age. But the MM contact memories keeps me wanting more. Its an addiction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2021): There is no such thing as a website which is for very old people. Nor is there one for more mature bi or gay men. They would never get enough customers if they were so strict. The bi sites are for people of all ages. The gay sites are for people of all ages. And many of the advertisers are trying to sell sexual favours, they already have a happy sex life at home and just doing it for the money. What have you got to offer? If someone wants sex they are unlikely to get turned on by the body of a 77 year old. Many men would rather pay for someone younger and more fit and sexy. There is far more to think of than you imagine. What if you catch a disease? What if you meet and get beaten up or robbed? What if the other person blackmails you? Where would you take them? Can you afford hotels? It is very unlikely that they would invite you back to theirs if they cannot go to yours or know your address. It costs money to have a sex thing or an affair. You won't get away with just buying them a drink now and then. What happens if you get very keen on them and want to see them more, or they nag you to leave your home life and be with them full time and say they will end it if you do not? As for the idea that many sites are free, this is true, but the free ones are the ones the scammers, blackmailers and low lives tend to go to. The paid ones are the ones which the fussy ones with more to offer choose, because they don't want to meet the unemployed losers who have no money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2021): I can only give you an honest answer. There aren't too many bisexual or gay-septuagenarians casually galivanting about, or out looking for "fun."
Sex, I presume? If you're married...you had better behave yourself!!!
You run the risk of being scammed, assaulted, or ripped-off. Most people in your age-group have settled-down; and have little choice but to be discrete.
You'll either have to depend on chance encounters; or you'll have to sign-up with a bi/gay website that caters to older-gentlemen. If you want to be discrete, just specify that in your profile comments.
Unfortunately, men your age usually look for much younger men; and things don't workout too well. Hiring sex-workers is risky and dangerous. I recommend online search, choose a reputable site that screens their subscribers.
If you don't want to pay for a gay/bi dating site; you'll wind-up hiring a boy-toy, or getting ripped-off by some random pickup. At your age, your options are very limited. Although you may be healthy and spry; you're still in a vulnerable and fragile stage in your life, my friend.
Many sites are free. Nobody can guarantee the fish will bite. That's a fact we all have to deal with, regardless of age.
Please be careful!
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